Students, parents and even teachers have always been stressed over exams and their results. Mark is the most valued measure of child worth in our society. The next tale of Shahid and Shahida shows how children are exposed to emotional pressure that they do not need, and how gratitude, religious beliefs, and support can alter their outlook.
It was the first year of O-level, and several days before the results came, he started to feel nervous. His heart started to feel sad. Shahid, who had worked hard all year, hard work, and hard work, started to feel strangely tense. The results came and they were very good. He got two A-pluses and one A. Grandma and mother were very happy. The results of his friends were also similar, but our Shahid's result was very good, but Shahid was not happy. A few other people were also not happy. Shahid was shocked that he wished all three A-pluses had come. There was no doubt about Shahid's hard work, but what could be done, the results had come and were overwhelming. Not a few days had passed when Shahid's elder sister's results also came. Shahida was a bright and hardworking girl. She was doing F.S.C.
Medical from the Federal Board, in her first year. Shahida's marks were lower than everyone's expectations. Shahida's teachers were surprised and worried. Although she was first in her college, Shahida was not happy.
The brothers and sisters started feeling sad. The parents got worried. They sent the children to a nursery. Seeing the condition of the children, the grandmother also started feeling worried. When the great uncles came from abroad, they brought gifts for the children. As soon as they arrived, they took the children to the best hotel in the city. Listen to the uncle's conversation: - "Look, children! You would have been sad if you had not worked hard. It was in your power to work hard, you worked hard. The results of your hard work should come according to your wishes; this is not necessary. A person should thank Allah in all circumstances and your result is better than the whole world. It is possible that a child has worked harder than you and has fallen ill, could not take the exam. A close relative of a child has passed away. He has been worried. There is no such problem with you. If you are still worried, this is an abuse.
The journey of life is long and uncertain. It is said that faith is between destiny and compulsion. Have faith in Allah Almighty. Learn to be happy. As things are, they can be better than this, they can also be worse than this. Allah Almighty promises that He will bless the grateful more. A person should be grateful. Qualified children like you must know that a man, while performing Umrah, was praying to the Lord of the Universe to make him one of the few. He was asked what he meant by this prayer, so he said that it has been said in the Furqan that there are few people who thank Allah. I want to be a grateful person to Allah. Every Muslim should be a grateful servant of Allah, being grateful is a great blessing."
The children understood the point, they recited the voluntary prayers of gratitude, and started working hard again. The parents also felt relieved and so did the grandmothers.
For a long time, we have started taking away the opportunities to be happy from our children. Our enemies are terrorists and terrorists who do not think even a little while attacking the schools of such children, who have entered the institutions and killed children. No matter how much gratitude is given to Allah Almighty, the enthusiasm and passion of our children has never diminished. While our victory in the battle for justice has given the entire nation the opportunity to celebrate, our children have also gained a new level of confidence. Raising children is a whole science. Islam also decrees that children have the right to be educated in the best possible way. It is said that the most beautiful heritage a father can give to his child is good education. For a long time, our new generation has been under the pressure of getting grades. When Formal education is being eliminated in the world, there is talk of home schooling everywhere, young people, regardless of their degree, are earning millions of rupees in the digital world on the basis of their skills. This is the era of artificial intelligence. Office and employment have been reduced to a mobile phone or a laptop computer.
Children in our country are even committing suicide when their marks are low. Parents who do not respect their children, do not show compassion to their children, at whose expense do they want to spend their old age?
Building the confidence of children is not only an individual problem, it is also a national responsibility. According to Saifi, those who destroy the confidence of a child are national criminals. Only confident individuals become a confident nation. If you do not build the confidence of your child, how will the child compete in the world? According to a careful estimate, every year in Pakistan, some child takes his or her own life on the occasion of results, how many children go out of faith in the love of their parents, how many children lose their faith in humanity. Give children the right to live, children the right to be happy. Yes, make children hardworking but don't make them mentally ill. Shape the character of your children but first look into your own heart. Look at those who are deprived of the blessing of children. Children are one of the best gifts from Allah Almighty. Appreciate Allah's gift. Don't let the sadness of children destroy your hereafter.
The bottom line is that children require love, encouragement and opportunities more than grades. Confidence, gratitude, and faith are lifetime gifts and will come and go, but marks will not. In order to have a brighter future in our country, we need to learn to applaud the work of our children rather than only their performance. A nation that is confident starts with a confident child.
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